'Wisdom' that gaining from disputesAny external reason is enough to start all disputes. But there must be an internal mutual understanding if it is to be resolved. The absence of disputes is not to be seen as the excellence of relationships. It is about keeping a thin line of faith and love that survives each dispute. Only those who start each conflict can end it. Mediation efforts and judgments are mere attempts to calm the thoughts or to resolve the crisis somehow. Outsiders are the main protagonists only in creating problems. All conflicts can only be resolved through the self-determination of those who have quarreled.
Every dissatisfaction will talk about inconsistencies. Through those inconsistencies, some new insights into relationships will emerge. There is a natural cure for hatred and opposition through such insights. Longevity is not for those who love without ever quarreling, but for those who keep the corridors of harmony within the walls of conflict.