Those who are latecomers always come up with their ideas and they begin to chuck them on others. Some of them who did not dare to come out with their ideas when they were required to do so, emerge out of thin air and begin to throw their unwelcomed ideas. If you are in a position to shut their mouth, should strongly ask them to keep silent.
Several people will approach you to advise when you have already taken your step but they never approached you before your taking steps. You can't change these people. We have to live with them, so ignoring them is the best solution.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
"You should wear the shoes to know where it pinches "
"It is easy to theorise on others' headache"
" If lost, then card is to blame, if win,it is my win".
"Dogs bark at rising Sun"
It is always comfortable to be a non-playing captain. It is true that a perpetual rebel cannot become a good King. The perpetual rebel will go on finding some thing or someone to blame for his own faults and failings. We may see any number of them around us.
However the real leader or performer will start acting without losing time. In that he may face hurdles and commit mistakes. But he will learn from them and improve and reach his goal or complete the task well.