K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"
Many middlemen will think about their personal gain also. Once they come in they will start thinking from their own angle and they may do unwanted things without telling you. He will carry words from here to there and sometimes the gap may get widened. Then you may the loser or the 2nd party may be the loser. But the middle man will never lose.
This is one to one discussion is very important when the dispute is between the two family members. The family information should not go out to a third person.