There are some people who really wish for our welfare. They always watch us carefully and tell us the faults in us so that we will correct ourselves and progress. That is called constructive criticism. One should welcome this.
But some people will find faults for the sake of finding the mistakes. They will never tell you about your mistake but go and tell some other person about your mistakes. We should be careful with such persons. If they are intentionally trying to harm us we should not keep silent and we should strongly reply to them so that they will not try again.
These days many people are biased. They will try to find faults with the people whom they don't like for their own reasons and try to cover the mistakes of some persons whom they like.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
The habit of finding faults in others is against manners. Such people can't be trusted. Sometimes, I also do it when I am compelled to do so but I am not interested in finding faults in others because I dislike this habit of people and I want to stay away from such people. Sometimes, they may be proven very harmful to someone.
But our parents or siblings or relatives or friends who care about us if they find fault we should take it positively because they intend to get us improved or rectified.
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"