Knowledge is power.
If we think from the point of view of spirituality, we are advised that it is wise to forget what has passed but the human brain is a complex structure, not a slate on which we can easily erase any written on it, it is a composition neuron and there is a group of many fibers, to which we are also difficult to reach.
Still, if we want to make our life easier, then we have to learn to forget the bad things and for this, it is necessary to forgive people. Meditation and yoga help us as important means so that we can forget the bad memories to some extent.
Another aspect is , if we are weak and he is stronger than us then we should not dare to challenge him directly, rather we should take help of another stronger person who can help us against him.
Third and most important aspect of this issue is that we should forgive him regardless of us being weak or strong. How long we can carry grudge or enmity for someone. This life is too short for us to love how we can live carrying gared for someone.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Sometimes some people will do the damage intentionally. We should not have any soft corner against such people. We should teach them a lesson. We should teach such a lesson that they will not repeat such things again and again. Even though we take some time in taking suitable action, we need not worry. But the lesson should be perfect. We should reserve our anger and see that we take corrective action at an appropriate time so that the other person will understand us also.