There may be many reasons for these outcomes. The only thing is we should understand why we lost and how we can win next time. Once we do that we can forget about the win or loss and start preparing for the next game. There are many games to come and we have to play them. So we should tune our mind in such a way that we will not get excited about a win and worry too much about a loss. Never go to negative thinking which will spoil your thoughts and you will become more ineffective and you have to face many losses in your life.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
I would say that instead of taking it as a failure we should close that chapter as a bad dream in our lives and start afresh. So, it would be prudent and advisable to break the game of life in smaller modules where each module is a game in itself and once the result of that is out and not favourable then just forget about that and start the another game. More we keep these things in memory more they will trouble us. Forgetting the bad memories is very essential for our future growth. It is difficult to do that but we must strive and try that as it really helps.
Knowledge is power.