Even if someone not helps you, he can still be your well-wisher.When a small child starts walking, initially he is supported by his family members so that he can stand and then walk by holding their hand, for some time people hold his hand, but after an extend they leave the hand of the child. , yet stay close to him so that if he falls, they can save him. But if the child becomes dependent, then the family members help him less so that he learns to walk on his own and it happens that the child starts walking by holding on to things like bed, sofa, wall, etc. and one day he starts walking normally without any support.
Many times we get many such examples when we feel that our own people are not helping us, especially our parents, but whenever such a state of mind arises, always calm yourself down and think carefully. You will find that even if not directly but indirectly, your family is always with you, and this thinking will motivate you so that you can solve the problem yourself and make yourself self-reliant.