K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
I think if we really feel our mistake that has irked someone we should apologise to him instead of throwing some formalities of Dont mind. Saying Dont mind may irritate someone if we have hurt him badly, in this situation saying sorry or offering an apology in another decent way will cool him down. Saying sorry doesn't degrade us if we have hurt someone.
When we decided to do something we will think and see whether we are deliberately doing any harm to anybody. If such things are there we may change our path so that there is no harm to everybody. If anybody's permission is required we will take it. Then we can proceed and complete our task.
Some may be unhappy and why should we think about their unhappiness when we are not causing that. But some people always try to please others and they use these soothing words. But that is not required I feel. At the same time, we should not hurt anybody with our actions.