Do not lock your likes and dislikes.Those who do not have their interests will not have a satisfying life. Our desires or desires are not wrong unless they harm or hinder the freedom of the other. It is a must to get trained to live with saying our likes and dislikes openly. The younger generation, who are only obedient and submissive from an early age, will slowly trigger to forget their desires. The reaction will be indifference or denial when he realizes that his words are worthless.
It is equally wrong to live only to obey the commands of others and to reject the suggestions of others altogether. It is the same with having no interests of one's own and locking up your likes. If one insisted on focusing only on their interests, it is diehard. Adjusting to circumstances is a skill.