We allow ourselves to be happy.Recently I came across a thought which said, we allow ourselves to be happy when we want to be happy, not when we deserve to be. And I feel that is so wrong. Happiness should never be a deal. It should always come from within. Many times we feel happy but we tend to suppress our happiness in Lieu of making ourselves realise we shouldn't be happy.
Let me put it in an example, Many times we tend to complete 1 chapter of our syllabus, that just not be enough, sometimes that might not even be what our To-do-list had, so despite being happy of at least completing one we tend to be sad about not doing the rest.
Definitely we shouldn't feel free from rest of the syllabus. But we can always be proud of atleast starting. In life we get few moments to be happy. But we ruin that by trying to find faults on what is not achieved. We should try to accept and be happy in the moment, and not let our darker side disgrace our happiness.
What are your views?