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    Let the confrontation gets on, but you be calm

    When the bottoms of our life are pushed and taken to confrontation level by others, keeping cool, maintaining compose would be the right behavior from our side. Confrontations are picked up to send us packing for having gone out of the way from the perspective view of others. We might have been convinced with our way of approach and that does not mean others have vouched for it. Therefore confrontation does happen and it may be on a severe note, and our calm behavior at that time would ease the situation from the tense moment to the discussion and settlement way of approach.
  • #743399
    Confrontations always happen in life, but we should keep our patience and patience and show understanding while keeping ourselves calm. When we see the collisions coming in the way, then we understand that if we oppose these collisions in the same way as they are coming, then most of us are at a loss. As far as the point of view of others is concerned, they are influenced by their experience and various aspects of life, which are also difficult to adopt and not easy to resist every time. The best way is to keep calm and wait for the right time, as the author has suggested.

  • #743404
    When we keep our emotions under control, we will not think of confrontations. But if we are short-tempered and get agitated easily we will go for confrontations. So as long as you keep your cool chances of getting into confrontations are rare. Even the other person is trying to provoke you if you are stable you may not get into arguments. As a matter of fact, healthy discussions are always good for everybody which will help in improving our knowledge. But when our personal views are given more importance over the better views definitely the discussion may turn into an argument and will lead to confrontation. A person with cool will withdraw himself from such confrontations so that he will have peace of mind. But people who want to see that their views are accepted will go on arguing.
    But when we keep silent some people may think that we are really very soft or we are at fault. But slowly the facts may come out and people may realise the facts. But that is too late. So in such situations, arguments and confrontation may also be required I feel.

    always confident

  • #743406
    As a famous quote goes every situation depends on your reaction which summarises the situations where we could avoid confrontations, No matter how much someone provokes us the whole conversation which is going further depends on our reaction only. If we could just calm our nerves, keep our anger at bay and try to listen to point of view of others as well instead of trying to dominate the conversation and trying to put our argument at the top be a listener. we can not only avoid confrontation but also keep everyone around us happy.
    "It is hardest thing in the world to be good thinker without being a good self examiner"

  • #743422
    Meaningful confrontation is always welcome because that would check the overtures.
    K Mohan @ Moga
    'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
    Even this challenging situation would ease

  • #743440
    Whenever there is a discussion or a point of dispute or effort to resolve a situation, it is natural that conflicts and confrontations would surface out among the people engaged in that discussion. In the heat and excitement of the discussions many people forget the boundary of control and manners in discussions and jump in some unpleasant situation. Keeping calm and composed is definitely a very big trait which can save a person from any untoward situation in such cases. For learning as how to keep calm in such circumstances one has to meditate and introspect oneself and try to control ones sentiments which push a person for those unnecessary bursts of our inherent nature. Delving deeply in discussions and getting excited and then not able to come out of that maze is an unwanted thing and we must avoid it in our lives. Self control and prudence is said to be the key to this type of management in our manners and gestures.
    Knowledge is power.

  • #743454
    Mohan, could you explain your response at #743422? What do you intend to convey? The rhyming is fine but the meaning is not clear. Please clarify in detail (I mean not a one-liner again).
    'Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power'. -Lao Tzu

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