And regarding the expectations, we should only have expectations from ourselves not from others and we will stay happy. Because when we expect too much from others and they are not fulfilled it makes us very sad and impacts our day to day life.
Ultimately we are on this planet as an individual even though we opt to be part of community and groups to survive but it is also true that we can't make others happy if we ourselves are not happy. So stay happy make others happy but not at the cost of your own happiness, have expectations but from not others but from yourself only.
"It is hardest thing in the world to be good thinker without being a good self examiner"
When we have food sufficient for one person, you can some part of that to you a person who is hungry. It is good. But donating the entire food you have and sleeping with hunger is not required. When there is no oxygen in the chamber you should first get your oxygen mask connected to you before you try to help another person to have his oxygen mask. Otherwise, you will not be there to help others.
But we are not supposed to demand others to help us forgetting their own survival. Nobody appreciates the same and once they know the mentality of such person nobody will come to help when he is really in need also.
Knowledge is power.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease