The real gentlemen and kind hearted people will not do like that. They will help the needy persons as per their capacity and will not advertise it. I have seen many gentle people who help others but do not talk about it. That is really a great characteristic of their character.
Those who help others just for show off are not kind hearted. They must be having vested interests behind all those gestures.
Knowledge is power.
Anyhow, we all believe that there is a supernatural power that is controlling all of us and there will be a record of all our actions including good and bad also. As per our Hindu mythology. Chitragupta will be maintaining all the records and he will have a file of each human being and all our actions will be recorded there and based on that after our death we may get into hell or heaven.
It is always better to maintain secrecy while we undertake such actions as helping others etc. We are not doing them for popularity and expecting something in return from anybody. So we need not maintain any record and make propaganda of the helps we did for others.
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"
'Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power'. -Lao Tzu