Similar to this winning is a loss to another and person who lost is giving way to another to win. So, one should make up his or her mind when facing lost,
When there are five persons to an interview for a single post the persons other than selected are not unfit but giving way to the selected one.
Though it is easy to tell but difficult to face, human mind will shrink for a while when facing loss but if we control our mind in all times, the duration of shrinkage will be less.
Winning and losing are the two sides of the coin. With a win, the value of the coin will not increase or with a loss, the value of the coin will not come down. Sometimes we may win and sometimes we may lose. A person who can learn from his wins, as well as his losses, will be always happy in his life. Intelligent people will know how to convert their losses into wins.
So we should learn to accept all the end results equally snd should not get emotional.