One should not expect from others what he himself has suffered.As time is changing, new generations are coming with new thinking and new thinking will only motivate them to live life in a new way which is also necessary. In such a situation, it does not seem appropriate to expect from the new generation what we have suffered. I remember the first time I got a cycle in 9th class, whereas my niece had the first cycle in the 2nd class itself and there is nothing to complain about. Still, in some families, I have seen that people remember their sorrow or bad times and advise other people to learn to endure. Especially this is seen in the case of daughters-in-law in the in-laws' house, where the mother-in-law must have tolerated a lot in her time and expects the same from her daughter-in-law. This happens to some extent in the case of father and son also. Giving experience and knowledge to your younger or future generation is definitely the right of the elders and it is also necessary. But with the changing times, we probably should not make some same expectations from the coming generations because now the situation has changed and if they want to move forward then they should be allowed to grow according to the new times.