Believe in the existence of God the superpower.
But if we are doing something which is illegal and getting money from others. it is never acce[table. That will come under corruption and corrupt practices are not acceptable and if the person is caught he will be liable to get punished. So we should not indulge in such practices.
A person who is honest may never accept such things. Even in difficult times, he will try to manage in a proper way only and only people who have greed may go for such things.
And similarly, lack of money puts a person in a precarious position where one feels like he/she is compromising his/her self-respect by asking for money. And it is true also in case the person from whom one is seeking money might remind him of the favour later.
Rarely does it happen that people do good with good intentions without showing favours.
Another quote I remember for this situation is that " Problem comes for few days but the favour stays for life". So one should try to take monetary help from only those who will not remind him/her of the favour in future. And such people in my view can only be parents and children and all other monetary exchanges can later take shape of ugly dispute in the later future.
"It is hardest thing in the world to be good thinker without being a good self examiner"
Further, why should we take loan from others? Cannot we keep our expenses and other indulgences within our limit? Tomorrow if the situation deteriorates and we are not able to repay that loan then what would happen to our reputation? Loan is not a solution to our problems. The solution lies in controlled and disciplined living.
Knowledge is power.
" Be Good and Do Good "
K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
By hearing their words he silently returned home and tell his wife,'the prestige of one itself kill him if he happened to expect others when he come down'.
This word always remembered by me.