K Mohan @ Moga
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Now coming to the relationships of husbands and wives, the bondage of love would be smooth if there is an emotional understanding between the two. The wive would not mind for her involvement in the different activities done in her household if she gets mental support from her husband. To have a strong bonding, the husbands should see that her grievances are resolved amicably so that such a bond is not distorted. Fulfilment of the expectations is the main point for the sustenance of the relationship.
The employer would be happy when the rated targets are achieved and in turn the employees would expect a better reward in the form of monetary incentives for their dedicated efforts.
I think the most selfless kind of love is of a parent towards the child no matter how irresponsible, careless and self-centred, the child is parents still can't see his/her pain but the child to understand that love after a certain point so even if balance initially seem tilted but at some point of time, it gets at the correct point.
Even in marriage, that scale has to be worked out especially during the marriages in the old times when most marriages were arranged. But if someone loves the other person this balancing becomes a little easier as the care flows naturally from the heart without much effort.
"It is hardest thing in the world to be good thinker without being a good self examiner"
Mutual respect and caring for each other will make a couple successful in their married life. I have seen many such couples who live for each other.