Accepting our mistakes is a better option than to blame others for our failuresToday we are living in a highly competitive world and we have to work hard and do sustained efforts for progressing ahead and carving out a path of success for ourselves. Many times with hard work and determination we will get the success in our task and achieve the objectives but every time our efforts will not result in a positive outcome. We have to be mentally prepared for such situations. So, it is very clear that many times we will have failures also.
It is a general human tendency to blame others for one's own failures. But that will never help as most of the times the reasons of our failures are due to our own incapability or incompetency in the cut throat competitive environment of modern times. It is imperative that whenever we meet failures it will always be better to re-examine our actions and the methodologies used in undertaking that particular task and then learn from our mistakes and carve out a better strategy next time. There is nothing wrong in accepting our own mistakes. It is going to help us only in our next attempts or next job. Blaming others is not going to help in any way neither today nor in the future. Frankly speaking no other person or a group of persons is responsible for our failures and if we relate them to our setbacks then it will be an illogical and incoherent way of relating things. It is always advisable to self examine and do a self assessment to find out the exact reasons of a failure in a particular job or project and learn lessons from it for our future endeavours.
This is my entry for the month end topic based contest on 'Acceptance'.