You are the only version of yourself, don't try to make someone else be like you.How we want to be is depend on us and maybe even on our circumstances, but we become what we really want to be. It is understandable to make yourself your choice for yourself, but if you think that everyone is being like you are, then it is not possible.
There is such a couple in my acquaintance, where the husband likes to be very disciplined and sincere and on the other hand the wife is very cheerful and bubbly nature, she likes to do everything with just fun while the husband wants everything with perfection. As far as the responsibilities of the family are concerned, both are very good in this matter. Both are fulfilling their responsibility very well.
In this case, the wife does not have any kind of complaint, but her husband always has the same complaint that the wife is not disciplined, and he keeps on teaching her discipline and sincerity. If you yourself are living life by being sincere, then it is your choice but it is not necessary that you should make the people with you the same. Everyone has their own way of living life and we should allow people to live according to them. What is your view on this matter?