A devotee of Lord Shiva called Sendhan, lived in Chithambaram,Tamilnadu, though poor and starving was not forgetting Lord Shiva. To make his love Lord Shiva came to his small house in a saint form. By seeing Him in the house, Sendhan felt happy and offered s sweet rice called 'Kali' with the available small quantity of rice. He kept that rice for himself and his wife for that night and next day. But after eating the entire quantity saint (Lord Shiva) blessed them, went out and vanished. Next day as usual both Sendhan and his wife went to Nataraja Temple for darshan. There the King came at that time for darshan found some pieces of Kali in the floor of shrine and mouth side of Lord's idol. With angry the King shouted and everybody puzzling. An external voice came from the Lord explained the devotion of Sendhan in spite of his poverty. King offered wealth to the sendhan by admiring his love on God. This stress necessity to extend our love others in spite of poverty.
This month 20th that day of Sendhan is celebrated in all places especially in Chidambaram.
"Life is easier when you enjoy what you do"
These days I have noticed on social media also many people are making friends and asking for help from you. The moment you say you can't give money, they will unfriend you.
That is why we should be careful in making friends. In my village, there was a rich man and he used to have many people around him always. He used to spend money on others also. So always people preferred to stay with him. His brother is also very rich. But he is very judicious in spending money. So people never preferred to go to him. Even relatives also will be like that. They will respect you as long as you are rich and the moment you say you are poor, they never bother even to say hallow to you.
Knowledge is power.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Because love is not something you feel only in good times, one does not fall out of love seeing someone's situation.
This is a true adage but only for those who go for relations like marriage without thinking well before. Especially teenagers and youngsters who dream of marriage and relations without knowing all the nuances of such decisions.
"It is hardest thing in the world to be good thinker without being a good self examiner"