Is being stubborn a bad trait?Stubbornness is a trait when a person does not want to change his plan or decision. A stubborn person does not change his opinion or course of action despite the difficulty. He does not take the help of other's even if he needs it badly.
Generally, people consider stubbornness as a bad trait. But I think all human beings shows stubbornness up to some extent at any time in their life. This trait is inherent i.e. people have it since birth. A small child becomes stubborn and does not want to share his toys or other things with other children or when a child saw a toy in the showroom or with any other child he becomes stubborn. But it is not limited to children only. Anyone anytime can show stubbornness.
I think being stubborn is not bad. Because people may be stubborn in different ways. If a person is stubborn about a bad thing, then it can create problems for others. But if he is stubborn for any good cause then it will be good for others also. When you are stubborn to achieve a target and work hard for it then you can achieve it. Further, if you are flexible and do not affirm your plans/decisions easily then sometimes people can pressurize you to change your decision. In this case, it is better to be stubborn than to be flexible which can be fooled easily by anyone. Being stubborn a person can find his way and achieve his goal without the fear of others' voices. So, we can say that stubbornness is another form of firm determination which help a person to resolve a problem and complete a difficult task. And being neutrally selfish which help to achieve your goals and do not harm others is really not a bad trait. It is my say. What is your opinion?
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