As mentioned by the author the eldest will be more responsible. But in our family, all the brothers are ready to take any responsibility and never hesitate to help each other. But our food habits and spending ways will vary from one to another. Some of them are very careful in spending. They think twice and then only spend. But some of us are not very particular about savings. They spend without understanding the importance of reserves.
In my family also I have two sons. Both of them are working in the IT industry and earning. But their mentalities are different.
This will be the situation in many families, Even wife and husband also may not have a similar attitudes and sometimes that will help the family.
As days pass by, we become matured and I tried to maintain an equilibrium and now things are going well. It sometimes, people often tend to change after marriage but all depends on how we manage the things. Coming to the core point, now everywhere, it is a nuclear family comprising of father, mother and two children or one child. It's the prenatal obligation that our children should be trained properly so that they can mingle with their cousins and relatives otherwise the personality traits are easily identified.
Knowledge is power.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease