Yes, people don't accept that they are angry when people ask them, it may be because anger is not considered good. Also, they are scared that person will persuade him/her and will give lectures about the bad effects of it.
I don't get angry for even the big issues and it's true I consider it's a drawback for me because like other emotions one should get angry sometimes.
" The two most important days in your life are the day when you are born and the day you find out why? "
– Mark Twain
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Generally during the pangs of anger our rationality and logical thinking is subdued. Our emotions come on the front and mind goes to the backyard.
Many people take unwanted and unexpected actions during the anger phase. It is spontaneous and so instantaneous that people do not know that they have acted in such extreme way during those phases. Those people we can keep a control on their anger and keep it subdued most of the times are really praiseworthy. It is commendable to do so.
Knowledge is power.
As mentioned by the author, many people may not accept their anger. Their reply will be negative when we ask them whether they are angry. It is always better to accept that we are angry if we are really angry. That will make the other person about our mindset. If he is sensible if may leave us at that point and wait for you to become normal. Our actions when we are angry will make our friends also enemies to us. We can't differentiate which is good and what is bad when we are angry.