What you seek is seeking you.It's a famous quote by "Rumi', that indicates we will find what we are searching for. in other words "what we focus on will expand." Every person has some qualities and some weaknesses. It depends on us, what we are looking for. If a person is studious, it might be possible that he is not social. if a person is full of compassion, it might be possible that he is not taking care of his family as they want. So if we want peace and an end to suffering we must focus on and appreciate their pleasant nature instead of criticising them.
The famous quote by Robert Anton Wilson is "What the thinker thinks the prover proves." Means your every thought is important. So if you want blessings of the intelligence that is working in this universe, you will have to bless all.
You and your outer world are ultimately one. When you stop pursuing the world hostile, you will be free, you won't have fear. your actions, thoughts snd words become different. The love and compassion generate automatically and you serve the world positively.
"The significance is hiding in the insignificance, Appreciate everything."