The use of abusive language is completely unacceptable.
The use of abusive language in general or in any other form is not appropriate, but still many times people start using many abusive words in anger or quarrels. But I am really surprised when educated people who are working in good positions, or who are part of good institutions or are students, even when such words are used during their normal conversation, it is not right and It's a shame of them who use such abusing words even in front of their family members. In some families, people even use abusive words with love. I do not agree in the slightest that love, belongingness, or any other feeling has ever taught you to use abusive language.I strongly believe that people should oppose such things, and if someone talks to you using this language or such words, then immediately warn him/her that this behavior will not be tolerated and this language is not acceptable.