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    Children need personalized attention now more than ever before

    There are highly disturbing reports of children who are just fifteen, from rich families being addicted to drugs. The reason given by such children is" neither my father nor my mother cares for me".

    This throws up a counter question as to who cares for them. Enter a classmate or some anti-social fellow who waits for an opportunity and promises "the high" with just one try. And then things go far beyond control. Such instances of parents being too busy with their careers and virtually surrendering care of their children either to old parents or servants have been reported from the bug metros, including Chennai, which was not so bad at all. Today, crime rates in this metro are increasing day after day. Teachers are so busy and often fail to notice dysfunctional behavior. The only primary responsibility lies with the parents who need to talk to children on a daily basis. They need to really open out and address all their fears and anxieties and pressures of studying a vast syllabus and so on.

    Reports that dominate social media are so complex. The television serials and the movies have made it even worse. Parents tend to spend their time on watching such TV serials, wasting too much time.

    It is time that we take this issue of care for children very seriously.
  • #767421
    The author is perfectly right. In yesterday newspapers a shocking news read. On suspected news, the school girls bags in Bangalore, were checked whether they are carrying mobile phones. But to the shock of the authorities, the bag of such school children were contained cigarette lighters, whiteners, cigarettes, contraceptive pills and huge amount of cash. As told by the author, if there is a proper liaising or discussions between parents and children this could have been avoided. we can also protect our children from evil way.

  • #767422
    Agree with the author. Children learn more outside the home if parents give no proper parenting treatment. They prefer their friend's opinions before that of their parents. Children now learn to say no to parents more bluntly than ever before. If proper care and love is not given to child in initial years, they will not listen to parents and bound to addict in wrong ways.
    Dr. Paresh B. Gujarati.
    Mechanical Engineer.
    'I'mprovement always begins with 'I'.

  • #767423
    It is indeed a very shocking phase that some of children belonging to elite classes are really cut off from their parents because the parents remain in their own worlds having no time to look into the activities of their own children. These children become directionless and cannot discriminate between right and wrong activities.,In such a situation, there is no one to guide these gullible children. However, they might remain under the supervision of servants for their proper upkeeps. They pick up smoking and other nuisances from such circles and with the passage of time situations might become unmanageable having no sign for their recoveries from such tragic situations. Though career wise the parents might have reached to the respectable positions but these parents loose their own children for ever due to their bad habits- difficult to get rid of such habits.

  • #767429
    The trends are very disturbing. Since money is never a problem, the parents feed the children with thousands of rupees every week. Since they do not want to be disturbed by their busy lives, they simply allow children to be on their own. However, the children are often trapped by someone who is anti-national. There are so many stories being circulated in the local Tamil newspapers. I also understand that Bangalore and Hyderabad are no different. The drug mafia always targets the rich. The results seem to be disastrous.

  • #767441
    A big problem is to be curtailed. This is seen mainly in very rich families. Father will be busy with his earning spree. Mother will be busy with her socialising activities. Children will be left to maids. The maids will be busy with social media activities and who cares for them? So they will easily get attracted to somebody we try to come near and try to make them addicted to drugs and earn money. In Hyderabad, there are some big schools where elite-class children will only go. There the habits of the children are costly and no middle-class person dares to admit their kids to such schools.
    I agree with the author that parental care is very important. We have to spend some time with their children and see that they will brow up in the right way. As parents, it is their responsibility. Otherwise, children will get their health spoiled and they well get into unwanted habits.

    drrao
    always confident


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