Category: Miscellaneous

07 Dec 2022 07:09

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Hating all because one in the group is not acceptable. Not done

In this world, we, everyone directly or indirectly depend on others. So, it is necessary to cope up with others. But many of us find fault with others without any reason and thereby start hating them. It is not correct to hate them but we still aim to correct them if they are really at fault as per principles. But should we start hating all the persons connected with him/ her? It happens but shouldn't that attitude be avoided? Let us consider individuals and not as groups. What is your take on this?

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#767533

07 Dec 2022 11:19

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Hating a group because of one person in the group may not be correct. But generally, it happens. We all know that like-minded people will be together. So in a group, if we know one person, we think that all other people are also of the same nature. That is why we hate that group if we hate one person in that group.
If you see the pattern of voting in assembly or Parliament elections all, people decide based on the party but not based on the individual. If I hate BJP, I hate all the people in that party. This is the general tendency.
As mentioned by the author, we have to understand the nature of the individual and if you feel that both of you can go together, you can be friendly with him. Otherwise, you need not go with him. We are not supposed to judge them and developing hatred towards them is not a good trait. We should be friendly with people as we require people always in our lives. We can't travel alone throughout our lives. This is a point we should remember.

drrao
always confident

#767539

07 Dec 2022 13:44

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Love and hate are all relative and based on individuals' attitude, approach, assumption, comprehension and emotional status. The first contributor for any trouble between individuals is the communication gap and the resultant misunderstanding or mistaken assumption.
The possible pragmatic ways to avoid or prevent such problems are taking efforts to clarify with the original person in direct conversation or communication and ensure what was intended is what was understood by the other. The second is not to give much credibility to a third party reporting of something which can cause misunderstanding and miscommunication. It may be even ignored and one should take action only based on one's own personal experience with the second party and if in doubt, to get it clarified.

It is not easy as said. But conscious efforts and training, exposure to more knowledgeable and balanced people, consciously trying to forget and forgive and try to shed avoidable ego clash; and age and time will make us tide over the love-hate issues.

Hating all because one in the group is not acceptable. Not done

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