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25 Dec 2022 10:27

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Meaningless fear and tension engulfing our mind

Many time we fear or hate on somebody or something without any reason even though we are not familiar with that person or situation. This may be due to their unnecessary questioning or threatening. Many children feel frightened on seeing some of their teachers and sometimes they even hesitate to talk with them.

One day when I went to the school to take back my brother's daughter who is studying there, a lady who was taking her child back too asked me whether the teacher of my girl has asked for some deficiency certificate. Then only I saw that her child has some deficiency. But when the lady asked the same for our child who is normal, meaningless annoyance and tension engulfed me. Then onward I feel some sort of fear when I see that lady and get perturbed whether she will again ask me something in connection with that.

Have you come across such situations?

#767995

25 Dec 2022 14:16

Joined:	02/06/2009
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That is true. Sometimes we will develop a fear and hatred towards some people. Afterwards, when we think about that, we will get puzzled. When I was in high school, a relative of ours used to visit our house frequently. His eyes used to be reddish always. I had a doubt why his eyes were like that. I asked another relative who was my senior in the same school. He told me that the other person is always angry and consumes alcohol too much. So I developed a fear and hatred towards that person. After some days, I had a talk with my father who said that what my friend told me was wrong and my relative is a very nice guy. But I couldn't change my thinking about that person.
As a matter of fact, we should not make any impression about the other person without knowing his nature fully. As long as there is no problem for us we need not develop any hatred towards any other person.

drrao
always confident

#767999

25 Dec 2022 16:25

Joined:	10/12/2022
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Author is cent percent right. Due to lack of self confidence fear comes to us.

Fear is our first enemy and obstacles for our growth in professional and personal front.

One of my close friend always fear about the death. I said him clear, one day all we have to vacate it, we are all have come here on the temporary visa. Further, our return journey ticket is confirmed, we don't the exact date and time of our departure. if we fear also nothing can be changed. This is the hard truth, accept it. After this explanation, he was convinced, never talks about death.

Fear takes us to negative mode quickly, and the quality of these kind of people are always talks about past matter and pass on negative vibrations.

Further, I wish to quote one example of positive fear.

While studying seventh standard, my younger son forget to submit science note book to the teacher.

Teacher asked my son, when he had not forget to bring lunch to school, how do he forget science note book?

He calmly replied, his teacher, without science note book he can live, without food how can he live? The science teacher shocked his answer. Here he never showed any symptom of fear to teacher.

When we went for open day that time only we have come to know from the teacher about the above incident.

Fear mould and tune and project as a negative personality to the society It is better have to get rid of from all fears and enjoy the gifted life, as long we exist.

#768000

25 Dec 2022 16:30

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Let us not believe others if they paint entirely a different picture of any personality. The opposite might be true in that case. However, our psychology is different and we could believe what others say regarding that gentleman. Whenever we come across such a man, we would not like to hear his talks for fear of hatred ness we have developed against him.
The best way to eliminate our doubts could be a frank talk with the man concerned so that we could come to know his real personality.

#768031

26 Dec 2022 06:58

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Feeling of fear is a natural impulse in the human life. It is a common phenomena. There could be various forms of fear and there could be many underlying conditions in which a person has a feeling of fear for anything. In fact fear can manifest itself in myriads of ways.
Psychologists and experts believe that the main reason of having fear is either weakness of the mind or not to accept any negative or adverse thing in one's life.
Some people have a splash of fear on small things while many others do not fear until some frightening thing happens. The fear response of a person also depends on his upbringing and in which type of environment he has been brought up.
It is a personal trait and varies from one individual to other. It is better not to fear but sometimes we are helpless because our personality manifests it spontaneously when we are triggered by an external stimuli.

Knowledge is power.

Meaningless fear and tension engulfing our mind

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