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    Understanding children is highly difficult.

    Many parents,irrespective of standard, don't treat the children as children. They are expecting more and more from them even in very child age. If some children act over to the age, that also not liked by them. Many parents sullen on their children without any reason. I saw in a local train, a girl child hold some packing papers playfully but her father scolding that child as anything without understanding that the same child will not touch such papers on the next week as her taste would got changed. Parents, please let the children play as children as no childhood days will come back.
  • #768152
    A piece of very nice advice from the author. But the very problem is the younger generation feels that they should discipline their children from their childhood itself. I have also seen many mothers and fathers shout at their kids who are not even completed their 3rd year. They will support their actions by saying that we should change their attitude when they are at an early age.
    But such behaviour will have a negative impact on the kid. They may become arrogant and may not care if their parents continue shouting at them. The parents of kids should have a lot of patience and try to engage children very sensitively. Showing them a stick will not be of any use.
    Childhood is a blessing and we will not have any duties and responsibilities till we start going to school. Once we start going to school our responsibilities start. So parents should understand this fact and help children in leading a happy life.

    drrao
    always confident

  • #768161
    Let us not put pressure unnecessarily on our kids diverting their minds from the playful moods. Childhood would not return if the same is not truly enjoyed. Some parents put pressure unnecessarily on them to show maturity despite their tender ages. This would create negative impacts on them encouraging them to be arrogant at the later stage. We should offer them full opportunity of growth in the natural ways so that they don't suffer psychologically.

  • #768176
    Expecting children to behave like mature adults is a wrong notion. If anyone thinks like that then one will be doing a grave mistake in ones judgement. Children are children and remain like that till they grow up and start understanding the things in their correct perspective. Parents have to be very careful in dealing with children who have tender hearts. If we treat them strictly then they would get hurt. If we pamper them then they will be spoilt. So parents have to keep a balance in this regard.
    Knowledge is power.


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