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05 Feb 2023 20:17

Joined:	02/06/2009
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Never finalise a marriage in a hurry

A boy and a girl who were grown up in different families and different atmospheres will get wedded to lead a common married life. The life they have to live together will be more than the life they spent separately before marriage.

Both of them should understand each other and should accommodate each other. This requires a lot of patience and control over the mind. So when elders search for and finalise the marriages they should see many issues like family background, financial status, education and family culture etc. Without understanding the above issues, if the marriage is fixed up, the chances of getting separated will become very high.

There should not be any compromise on any of the issues. So elders should take sufficient time and discuss all pros and cons and then only take a decision. One should give more importance to the ideas and interests of both the girl and the boy.

I like to know the opinion of other members also.

#769326

05 Feb 2023 20:33

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The author has raised a very relevant topic at least in the context of present situations where we can see that after tying marriage knot, within a few month, the difference in the opinion between the couples surface and they are not even in a position to resolve the differences arising out from their arguments. This is the reflection of their lack of respect and understanding of each other causing animosity in the relationships. This could have been averted if we could make an allowance of their togetherness so that they could understand each other in relation to the temperament and their behavioural aspects. Taking decisions of marriage in a hurried manner might cause strained for ever and at the later stage, it would be difficult to patch up their differences.

#769327

05 Feb 2023 21:09

Joined:	10/12/2016
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Marriage is a life long affair and it is to be fixed after necessary deliberation and considerations. In earlier times, parents fixed the marriage based on caste and family standards as well as based on the qualities and virtues of the bride. Those marriages were generally successful. Some experts believe that more the homework done in marriage fixing and finalisation, better the results. That might be true but in earlier times the reason of successful marriage is also attributed to the patience and tolerance shown by women at that point of time.
Today women are also working outside and we cannot expect such a submissive behaviour from them. So whatever hard work goes today in finalisation of marriage, there is no guarantee of its success.
So the only mantra is mutual respect and understanding and then only the married life would be happy.

Knowledge is power.

Never finalise a marriage in a hurry

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