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    Success gives us confidence. Do you agree?

    As students, we will be writing many examinations in the process of obtaining qualifications and also in the process of getting a placement also. Our performance in these examinations will decide our future. If we perform well and if we are successful, we will get motivated and become confident. This confidence will allow us to perform well in other areas also. But a successful result should not bring in overconfidence. If we become overconfident we may not put in the required efforts to be successful in further attempts.

    One should not become complacent with the success achieved. He/she should continue his/ her dedicated and concentrated efforts for success. Every success should make us more humble and we should strive hard for further better results in the coming future. I request other members to offer their views in this matter.
  • #774537
    What the author says is absolutely correct. Nothing works better than the confidence to achieve success. Once we achieve success, there will certainly be surge of our confidence.
    However, if we go by the preachings of Sri Krishna to his disciples Arjuna, Sri Krisna clearly has stated that we must carry on our jobs without any passion but at the same time, we must have the inner urge to carry forward our jobs with interest. If the element of interest is present ,it will certainly be marvellous.
    Always thinking that someone is present to support us in the hours of crisis is the natural instinct but not necessarily achievable. Hence let us work with all our available resources to give it a touch of excellence. We will surely be recognised by majority of people.

  • #774538
    I completely agree with the statement of the author here every success, small win and achievement gives us more confidence. It is like having a domino effect one victory helping in other victory. No matter how small a win is it impact our mind and motivate us further to put more efforts and strive towards more bigger goals than what we have already achieved. This is true for academics, job and life as whole. If a child succeeds in any examination and given praise as well, some trophy and prize, the child though initially by the hunger than later by habit puts more efforts for betterment and once this become habit it continues as well.
    "It is hardest thing in the world to be good thinker without being a good self examiner"

  • #774539
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    Honesty is the best policy.

  • #774540
    It is true that success is a great motivator for our future actions in the same direction. But we may not get success in our lives every time. So the point is that even if we do not get success we should continue our efforts.

    The atmosphere today is very competitive and tough and students have to work hard to achieve their goals. Keeping oneself balanced and keeping oneself focused on work or studies is the main challenge.

    Every success is to be considered as a step for the next series of efforts. Success does not mean that it is the end of the tunnel. In fact, that is the beginning of the next struggle. In today's environment there is no break or pause for a student. It is a long journey of struggle and hard work and then only the intermediate phases of success would build up confidence.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #774546
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  • #774575
    I am happy that all the authors we responded also in agreement with my thoughts. A person who gets motivated will always perform in a better way. So it is good to appreciate the people who are performing well so that they will further perform well.
    drrao
    always confident

  • #774577
    Success gives you confidence; there's no doubt about that. However, the approach to cultivating success can sometimes benefit from a shift in perspective. Instead of framing it solely as a long-term achievement, we could introduce the concept of success in smaller, more manageable terms – a micro-term approach. This strategy can be particularly effective when teaching children the value of success.

    Consider the simple act of waking up early in the morning. For a child, achieving this can mark the start of a successful day. Catching the school bus by 8:00 am might seem like a routine task, but when accomplished, it becomes a success. Completing daily activities and retiring to bed early can also be viewed as successes in their own right. By breaking down the day's activities into separate tasks and focusing on achieving each one, children can develop a sense of accomplishment and success on a daily basis.

    Teaching the significance of being a successful individual is paramount. By instilling this perspective early on, the concept of being successful can become a habit for students. The idea is to create a mindset where success isn't solely a distant achievement but an ongoing series of attainable goals. This can lay a solid foundation for their future endeavors.

    It's important to recognize that success doesn't conform to a universal scale. It varies from person to person. An analogy can be drawn from an individual with autism who might excel in a marathon but struggle in a 100-meter race. This underscores the uniqueness of each individual's abilities and the importance of recognizing their achievements within their personal context.

    In conclusion, guiding students towards success through a micro-term approach offers several benefits. It fosters a sense of accomplishment and confidence through manageable goals, emphasizes the importance of incremental achievements, and makes success a part of their daily routine. By acknowledging that success is diverse and context-dependent, we create an inclusive environment that celebrates individual achievements. In this way, we can help students develop a lifelong habit of pursuing success in all aspects of their lives.

    Regards,

    Mr. Sankara Rama Subramanian


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