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    Erring children should be corrected by their elders

    Children may not be aware of what is good and what is bad. It is the responsibility of their parents, grandparents and teachers to teach them what to do and what not to do. School-going children learn from other children in the school also. Chances are more for them to commit errors. Sometimes they do misdeeds also. Parents should be constantly watching them and correcting them.

    When children commit small mistakes, they should be warned and see that they will not repeat such mistakes. Instead, if the elderly keep silent, children never know that they have committed a mistake and they may repeat or even commit bigger mistakes.
  • #776750
    The kids are dependent on their parents to know the different systems prevailing in the society apart from resolving their own issues in a given situation. They must be taught how to tackle the different challenges. There is always an eagerness from their sides to know the appropriate ways to behave in a particular situation.
    The role of the parents are of different natures and they are the real gurus in their lives. Beginning years are the important part in reshaping the future of the kids and hence they need a constant guidance initially. Such valuable guidance will be helpful to the kids in many ways.
    On the basis of their earlier experiences, they can formulate the ways to tackle the altered environment successfully after sometimes.
    Initial years of the infants are the vital years of their guidance but after a couple of years say their attainment of 18, they can take a meaningful decision in their own.

  • #776753
    Parents have a great responsibility towards the children. The mind of a child is like a blank slate and he picks things and learns mostly from the parents while growing up. It is only when the child starts going to school and thereafter to college that he starts learning things from the friends and society around. That is the phase when parents have to be very alert and cautious to see that the child does not distract from the main course of his studies and doesn't fall victim to bad company.
    During the adolescent stage child would make mistakes and err time to time and parents have to bring him back to the right path not simply by banging him but dealing in an affectionate but psychological manner. Good parenting is an art but parents have to learn it if they want to correct their children and make them successful in this tough and competitive world.

    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

  • #776762
    Children are in their early life phase learning a great deal of things from their parents and society around. They will be doing a lot of things and trying to do more day by day but while doing that it is natural that some mistakes will happen and children will err without knowing that they have erred.
    Parents have to be very patient and careful in handling these children because a severe banging would discourage them to undertake any task and due to fear they will start behaving like an introvert. A balance approach of reward and punishment has to be adopted by the parents to correct these children. Rewarding has pleasant results. It motivates the child to do better. Punishment has to be given in a psychological manner and physical beating has to be avoided. With a balanced and affectionate approach parents can keep the children on right track.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #776774
    Normally children are ignorant in some levels. We, the parents and house elders should correct them whenever they are erring. In my house my parents and other elders advise us even before we are doing a thing which makes us not to err. But this was when there was a system of joint family but nowadays present parents do not have time to watch their kids on erring and more over not allowing others to correct them when erring by saying ultra-vires.
    Recently in Chennai, a lady advocate saw many school students are hanging in the foot board of city bus, stopped the bus and asked the students to get down from the bus forcefully as well she condemned the bus conductor and driver for allowing them to hang in the foot board. With some influence she got remanded in the court for considering this as an offence and later she got bail from the court. On the very next day at the same area one student fell down from bus as he was hanging in the foot board got stuck under the wheel and lost his both legs below the knee. This was unnoticed by many. Since then many public are not considering this foot board travelling/ hanging as an issue. Many viewers are just murmuring and passed the place.


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