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    Risk of students falling in bad company

    Parents are sending their children to schools and colleges for acquiring education. When these children come in contact with outside world then there is always a danger of their falling in bad company. There are some students who are already exposed to bad company and when the good students come in contact with them either through friendship or playing sports or being classmates, they also get introduced to some bad things like smoking, gambling, bunking classes, drug abuse, etc.
    Many times parents are not aware and they only know these things when it is too late.
    Is there a risk for students falling in bad company? What precautions parents should take to protect their children from bad company? Please share your views.
  • #776940
    Parents should be observing the behaviour of their children keenly. They should also be in constant touch with the teachers and get information about their wards.
    Generally, if any child gets into bad habits, one can notice a change in the behaviour. This change can be easily noticed by parents if they spend some time with them. Once a change is noticed we should get into the details and we should see that the child will not get into bad habits.
    One of my friend's grandsons was admitted to music class. The boy was not attending the class but sitting in a park and coming back. After two days, his father phoned up to the music teacher and enquired. The teacher told him that their boy was not attending the classes. Then the parents understood that the boy did not have an interest in music. So they allowed him to discontinue music.

    drrao
    always confident

  • #776941
    Nowadays there are so many vices spread by the evil people and children being in their tender ages copy these things quickly. So as students are spending a good time outside their houses and some of them can fall victim to these bad things and their parents might not be knowing about that until and unless they are vigilant.
    It is the duty of the parents not only to take care of their children but also to be alert that their children should not feel victim to the evil forces.
    Drug addiction is the most challenging out of all the vices and once the student gets in its trap then it becomes very difficult to release him from its clutches.
    Parents have to be very alert and vigilant in the present situation.

    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

  • #777011
    Risk in this type is much more comparing to any other risk.
    Here the bad company in any one is grasped mainly because of the home situation. Home situation if find so free no children will go out. When only we have no food in house we used to step into Hotel, similarly if house is free for them no bad habits or bad company touch them. I am proud to say that we, our parents and all house members very friendly when we are children and hence all of us (all brothers) have no bad friends and smoking habit etc.,
    Nowadays parents have no time even to talk with children and in some houses not allowing them to take interact with other relatives, this will automatically distract them somewhere.
    Many time I heard in public places that children are talking with some friends about their parents etc., This may cultivate in others to pollute their minds further.
    Here my views to handle children of present era:
    1. parents should spent at least one hour with children by talking freely without asking them about their
    education etc., This will made them to open freely with the parents if they face any problem in education wit
    hout fear/hesitation.
    2.Parent should take them out, irrespective of the age, at least monthly once by setting aside all their busy schedule or ego.
    3.Parents should never prevent other house members to help the children in their activities without making pollution in their minds, where the parents are not feasible to offer their mingling with them.
    4. Strictness should be with the parents on the children only when they are erring but if the above three presents the erring in them will get vanished or even found appeared in their minds.
    5. Many parents of present era are thinking that the children should aware the difficulty or hardship facing by the parents. But is not at all good till the full growth of the parents. The children in some of such cases would turn into another way that is it will emphasize in children that they are burden to them.

  • #777026
    Yes, parents role is very important and crucial in protecting the children from the bad company.
    Knowledge is power.


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