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15 Mar 2024 21:16

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Why does it happen to me?

In this world many people are blessed in the sense that they are luckier than many others. In the same situation some people get advantage or benefit while some others lose and are even harmed. These are the things that created the words like fate and destiny. The believers in destiny say that there are people who get good results from their efforts but many unfortunate ones do not get success inspite of hard work.
In such a situation a losing person asks - Why does it happen to me? Can we answer that question? Please share your opinion.

#777517

15 Mar 2024 21:45

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In my opinion how it happened and why it happened. But one should not think why did it happen to me? The outcome of any work depends on how we perform, the route we follow, etc. Many of us believe in destiny. But doing whatever we want and thinking about destiny is not correct. We should do whatever we have to do and take the help of others and see a positive result. Even after putting in all our efforts, some things may go differently. Then it is destiny. One of my relations suffered from Cancer. Famous doctors in Hyderabad saw her and they operated on her. But they said she may not sustain for more than three months. But after surgery, she took ayurvedic protein-rich medicines and survived. Even today she is doing well. But another relative also had a similar problem and used the same medicine after consulting the doctor after surgery. But he could not survive. That is destiny. But we should not leave anything without trying our best from our side.

drrao
always confident

#777519

16 Mar 2024 11:12

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Let us not enter into the controversy that destiny plays an important role in our lives and such a belief is not from my side but if you meet any reputed astrologer, he might interpret it that way. Let us not remain under the confusion with such a statement. The fact is that the followers in such a situation cannot make a firm decision due to belief of a wrong notion.
What we should do is to make a systematic plan of execution of a job in hand considering all viable options right from beginning to end. The performer needs to write down the steps and the resources required for completion of the task. It is a way of cross - checking of the entire assignment. If everything is going smoothly, success is assured to us. We would not go after luck.
However, there might be possibilities of cropping up some circumstances beyond our control such as a late approach of the needy patient to a hospital with a severe burn injury and the late reporting of the attending doctor to take care of the ailing patient. This might be due to bad - luck for which we have absolutely no control.
However, such chances are rare. Let us believe in ourselves and undertake the task with full caution. We are sure to achieve success.

#777520

16 Mar 2024 16:23

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I don't know why but such things exist in this world. There are people who work hard all their life but get nothing in return, while some people are so lucky that they get everything. You can easily correlate with cricket. There have been many Ranji players, who have records to their name but they couldn't make it big at international stage. They have tons of runs and wickets at Ranji level but they couldn't make it to the Indian team. Vinod Kambli was considered better than Sachin Tendulkar by his coach but we all know what happened to him. There is something called luck, which nobody can deny in this world. You must have that luck factor to succeed in this life and merely hardwork is not enough.

Humble yourself or life will do it for you!

#777525

16 Mar 2024 20:01

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This is a tough question to answer. Since long, people have explained it with destiny or fate. So, those who believe in that there is no problem in getting consoled.
Otherwise, it is difficult to explain the difference in the results that people obtain after doing same hard work and efforts.
Many people get disheartened by the negative things happening in their lives but there is nothing that one can do about it. The wisdom of the ancients say that we have to work and keep working without bothering much about the results. The fact is that in many instances result is not in our hands and we have to be contented with what we get.

Knowledge is power.

#777540

17 Mar 2024 17:00

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According to Mythology any thing happening to one is according to his or her destiny or fate. That fate is determined by the Supreme or God only by the karma account of the concerned Human. According to Spiritual leaders, the present Human Birth is a rare one after 84 lakh of birth and death cycle. Human Birth is in the top most level of 84 lakhs cycle. So, in this Human birth only a chance of attaining relief from the 84 lakh cycle through which the discriminating power which the God or Supreme has given only in the Human Birth. Literally speaking we can see daily that we Human only walk or run on the road by watching the unwanted things on the road but other than human do not do so, It is simple example but made us to understand the discriminating power dealt in us. That is called sixth sense,
So, when we understand through our realization of power of discriminations we can further understand that the happenings to one whether good or bad is according to the fate or Karma,
So, according to the principles of eternity, it is good to leave everything to the God or Supreme who in turn will reduce our problems or gives us enough strength to bear the same on our constant prayer or request to the God.

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