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    It's a choice of yours, if you want to live for yourself or for others

    It's a matter of your choice if you smoke or not.

    I was in my first year of college and used to stay in the hostel where most of the students used to smoke and drink but I never used to. Even my room partner used to smoke and used to offer me sometimes. I was always attracted but never tasted it as I had thought of not indulging in it. The main reason was the financial condition of my parents. We were four siblings and I could understand how difficult it was for my parents to spend money on all of us in that period of time.

    I used to say it's a matter of choice and used to deny people whoever used to offer me as I didn't want to spoil my life by getting addicted.

    After the completion of my college I started doing a job and then my choice changed, I started smoking and drinking.

    I was living alone in another city and took support of cigarettes in my loneliness and in addition to that my room partner was a drunkard. As it is said bad company is the reason for the introduction of bad things in your life, I became addicted. I curse those days. But then it became my choice and he became my best friend. All the ethics which I had in my early life died.

    And now today after 25 years have passed I am not able to get rid of this addiction. I am scared how much my health has been affected due to it.

    I always thought it was my choice and that's true everyone has the right to live as per his/her own wish. But what is going to happen to my family if something serious happens.

    At this age I realise it that I was wrong. Sometimes while choosing anything we should think of our family too.

    I don't know why the people after knowing that it's injurious to their health,take it as a habit. While smoking harms your health, you don't notice it at first. That's why the World Health Organization calls tobacco a "gradual killer." And by the time smokers may feel ill effects on their body , they're addicted.

    I wish I could save people who are on the verge of getting addicted to it. I want to give a message to people that "next time if someone offers you a cigarette you must strongly deny it" and don't say it's my choice because it's not.


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  • #778219
    We (You and me( are in the same boat, Gupta Sir. I tested it in school and started regularly while in college.
    (a) Those who have forgotten Noakhali, how can they protest Sandeshkhali?
    (b) Have no fear of perfection - you'll never reach it. ---------- Salvador Dali

  • #778221
    Addiction is like that only. Once it gets hold of us we become slave to it whether it was our choice or not.
    The author has tried to give a strong message to all the people who have still time to refrain from these addictive habits.
    It is true that bad company is conducive to bad habits which means that one should avoid it as far as possible.
    Loneliness, failures in life, and other such things in one's life are also said to be the potential reasons for getting trapped in the jungle of addiction.
    The big question is how to avoid falling in the trap of addictions? We should never make them our choice.

    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

  • #778223
    This is a thought provoking thread by the author.
    Making choices in life is a complex mechanism. Sometimes we make choices which we know that are not going to yield good results in long run. Still we do it. Human mind is very complicated. Even the prudent person gets attracted easily to many things which are not considered good.
    This is also a universally known and accepted fact that our minds are lured easily and we try to remain in comfort zone. All the bad habits have their roots somewhere in the comfort zone only.
    There is always a resistance to work and then oeople extinguish the generated stress with some vice or bad habit. Good choices can be made but we have to pursue them also which of course requires hard work and persistence efforts.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #778224
    Our choices are changeable during the different stages of our life. The author was comfortable initially without the cigarettes but once he joined a job his habit of smoking became a part of his life. Though he tried on some occasions to get rid of this nuisance still he is in trying mode.
    I agree that it is not possible always to come out such a frustrating situation but still, he can try his sincere endeavour of quitting of such a habit.

  • #778232
    It is a bad choice. But we can't do anything now. Many students stay in hostels, especially for doing BE/B Tech./MSC. Many of such students will get addicted to some or the other habits like this. Drinking is a costly habit and people who get addicted to alcohol will waste a lot of money.
    During my PG studies, I stayed in a hostel with another student. I was staying with one of my classmates and he used to drink regularly. He was from a rich family. So he used to spend a lot of money. He used to go to movies regularly. He used to ask me to go with him. But, I never went with him.
    One should understand the negative effects of bad habits. Once you are aware of the ill effects of these habits we will try to be away from such habits. Many people suffer a lot and become poor in their lives due to their drinking and smoking habits.

    drrao
    always confident


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