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    How to prevent bullying in children?

    Some children have a tendency of bullying other children and they use various gestures and actions for that. Those who are bullied by others are not only hurt but sometimes it leaves a bad impression on them and in some cases it becomes a serious emotional matter. Parents have a great responsibility of taking care of their children if they come to know that they are being bullied in school or society by some students.
    We have also to identify the students who are bullying some simple and gullible students especially those who do not retaliate in these matters.
    It is our duty to teach our children neither to bully nor to get bullied. It is a bad thing and some children are affected much by these offences.
    What are your views about the incidents of bullying of children in schools or society? How to prevent it?
  • #778647
    Bullying in children is not a new phenomenon. It existed earlier also. With time new methods and techniques evolved and children started to use them. Offending and hurting others in social media is also a kind of bullying.
    Students are of tender ages and at times they become impulsive and offend other students by bullying. If some students are not opposing that then the offending student becomes more aggressive in its fun making activities through pranks and other methods. Generally the target of bullying are the simple and easy going children.
    In schools, during recess or gaps we can find some students always searching opportunities to bully other children.
    In my view, the major role in checking and stopping this menace lies with parents who should monitor these things on a daily basis. Then comes the role of teachers and school staff who can also check this through punitive measures.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #778651
    Charity should start from home. I have seen many parents pass on comments about others and their children before their own children. Even the school teachers also pass on bad comments in the class room and heckle at some students. It happens in every school right from Primary School to the Kendriya Vidyalaya. It's quite natural that children would easily inherit such bad traits. So, parents and teachers are primarily responsible for this and they should correct themselves first and definitely things will be in place later on.
    Regards,
    Jagdish

  • #778652
    Kids don't know their limits, which is the reason they bully. Some kids are naturally aggressive towards any kid who looks weak. They will never bully a kid who is stronger and gives them back with full force. During my school days my younger brother used to get bullied a lot. I gave a warning to that bully kid to not do it again. Once he knew that there was someone to protect him, he backed off and never did it again. In my opinion such kids are not treated well at their home by their parents. They learn bullying from their parents who are aggressive towards them. Kids learn what they see at their home. If parents want this bullying culture to end, they need to behave properly in front of their children.
    Humble yourself or life will do it for you!

  • #778657
    The role of parents is very important in this issue. Why a child should go for such practices? Why parents are allowing them to do such practices? When a parent comes to know that their children are bullying other children, it is their responsibility to tell them no to do and if they are not caring proper counselling and some punishment if necessary be given so that the child will become normal. But many parents ignore such acts and allow them for some time and by the time they try to rectify their behaviours it will go beyond their control. We all know it is easy to bend a plant but not a tree.
    I feel if somebody is bullying our children, we should inform their parents and if necessary teachers. We should call all the children involved in the issue and get the facts. Then only we know who is really at fault. If we blindly go by the words of our children sometimes we may become the victims.

    drrao
    always confident

  • #778684
    Bullying becomes a part of the habit of children because of the faults of the parents and other known circles. If we are ourselves indulged to such habits, how can we arrest our kids not to indulge in such practices? After all, the environment plays a significant role in shaping the careers of the kids.
    Now coming to the solution of this problem, the same can be tackled with a far- sight approach of the guardian. In no way, a guardian should pass on bad comments on anyone in presence of the kid. Moreover, if a kid is found practicing such a habit, the role of the guardian should be to teach them the right culture.


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