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    Why are wedding receptions becoming so noisy?

    Gone are the days when we would meet our close friends at receptions. We would meet our relatives and go on chatting with friends. Everything was informal and was enjoyable. After the cell phone revolution, the habit of being in touch also increased.

    Along with cell phones, came the concept of pre-wedding shoot. Today, this is a costly affair and to keep the guests engaged for at least sixty minutes, someone goes on stage and starts singing as if there were no tomorrow!! The accompanying dance and the instrumental music is so loud that it can easily disturb everyone in the neighborhood.

    Dancing is perhaps borrowed from the movies. But do overdo everything is just not on. No one can even talk in the noise. Thankfully, the dinner is served on another floor, and the sound does not affect the conversations there.

    The dances go on till late in the night and the men take to booze as well. Sometimes, they become so intoxicated that they create some trouble in the marriage hall itself.

    While personal freedoms cannot be litigated, perhaps the local authorities can impose some small restrictions and make the wedding receptions become less noisy.
  • #778770
    Human beings are basically fun loving and if they have money and opportunity then they will go for it. There are many people who are earning good amounts and their financial condition allows them to spend more money on family functions. Some of them want to show off their wealth also and that is the best time to do it when guests come to attend the function and get impressed by the extravaganza.
    I had attended a marriage reception about 2 years ago and the parents of the boy as well as girl wanted to do it in day time and conclude at lunch but the boy and girl both did not agree. Their point was that it was a very special moment and without lights, music, and DJ there would be no fun.
    Yes, things are changing, society is changing, and young people are taking that as their way of life.

    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

  • #778774
    Social media and internet is the reason for such environment. Everyone wants to look good on those Instagram reels. Nowadays, everyone thinks they can become a celebrity through social media. Wedding function is the best occasion to showcase yourself and people are doing crazy things just to get everyone's attention. Few days back I saw a video where bride and groom in a Hindu wedding were kissing in front of everyone just like Christians do in their wedding ceremony. We are under western influence and things are changing a rapid pace.
    Humble yourself or life will do it for you!

  • #778778
    I remember earlier also marriages used to be a great function in any family and in our village the whole the village was invited for food and rejoicing. That time there were no modern musical gadgets but traditional music instruments were played by the local artists. The marriage rituals were generally done in night time but there was no rowdy noise like present times and the priests sang the Sanskrit shlokas in their loud voices captivating the attention of the people. Rituals were followed sincerely and more emphasis was on the culture and tradition. At that time no one complained about anything and even a cup of tea in the night was taken with great satisfaction. All the people who attended the function were in great harmony and considered it as their own function.
    Today, we are more interested in fun part of it and have no interest in the rituals. Everyone is only worried for the drinks and dancing.
    The big noise is a source of nuisance and disturbance and some people raise complaints but when majority is dancing who listens to these complaints.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #778795
    More money with the people. So everybody wants to enjoy. Everybody wants to showcase their talents so that all their relatives and friends know about them. Nobody wants to lose a chance. These days parents want their children to be excellent in all fields. They want to get the appreciation of others for the knowledge and the skills their children are having. So they will expose their children to the public in such events and occasions. That is why we are seeing a lot of activity in these marriage receptions.
    Nowadays communication is going from one place to another place very easily. So the customs followed by one region are getting known by the other regions also and they are trying to introduce those customs in their functions also. Reception is a chance for us to meet our friends and relatives and we can revive our old contacts also. That is why we see people going around the area in the reception venue and greeting each other.

    drrao
    always confident


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