If others are happy we can be very happy too
A group of friends got to chat and I was one of them. Most in the group were above 60 and had very good knowledge in their domains. And most had very ordinary childhood experiences in middle class families and today, each one has enough to go to the costliest five star hotels for dinner at least once in a month.And each of them had a social life that extended to doing something extraordinary. For instance, one has a big group of fairly rich people who have formed a trust for environmental protection. They also co-ordinate with Government agencies. Another volunteers for an NGO, offering free coaching in Mathematics and Science.
And as our conversations took a turn to enjoy some jokes, a few had lovely moments of happiness that were clear from their interactions and experiences with others.
Happiness, it became very obvious, was there for the asking. Since many are dispersed in different parts of Chennai metropolis and two other cities, it is not possible to meet so often. But since many had come with their wives, sharing of experiences turned out to be so enjoyable. At least once in six months, we all agreed that we would meet again.
And it became very loud and clear -- a second career after 60 can be very nice, if only we create spaces for happiness. Often, by doing some constructive work, where we can not only engage ourselves but do something very useful for the society.
Happiness does not mean just having tonnes of money, though money is very important. But money alone will never bring happiness to anyone.