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    Empower women through several initiatives

    A recent post of mine regarding ethical business practices found among the lowest middle class people selling butter milk, has elicited quite a few responses. I sincerely feel that empowering women can indeed lead to hugely positive outcomes, provided there is a right approach.

    Let us talk about specifics. Any girl child, now studying in any Government school in Tamil Nadu, is given Rs1000. Now, the money goes straight into the bank account. One particular true story is narrated here, without any slightest reference to the place or the family. It is a small town in one particular district of Tamil Nadu, very well known for its natural beauty.

    The father is a habitual drunkard. The mother refused to give a pie to the father when he insisted that she give the mother from the child's bank account. The lady gathered strength to report the matter to her brother, a teacher in a Government school. This gentleman asked his sister to lodge a complaint in the all women police station nearby..

    The woman sub-inspector warned the father with dire consequences. The uncle of the girl also approached a college offering the Master s Degree in Social Work, where there are professionally trained counselors. The man is now reformed and is a painter by training and he is based out of a huge city. He even supports the girl and a few days ago,, the hard working girl cleared the tenth standard public examination.

    All through these years, when the father would not care for the family, the mother worked initially as a servant maid in several houses and doubled up as a cook in one house. Today, this family, that has a son earning so well in the Gulf, has come forward to support all higher education of this girl, in total

    Look at the kind of support made available through professional counseling for free. The woman felt empowered only when the police intervened. She hesitated to do this for quite a long time. The role played by the brother of the lady is also extremely good. The counselor, known to me, has promised to help any such case referred to him, for free.

    Further details are not provided here. Women like the one mentioned here, require public support and only when people chip in, we can see the difference.
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  • #779447
    Sorry. Read give the money. Am unable to edit.

  • #779452
    Author is floating a good number of posts for discussion and many of them have humane touch where helping the poor is the central theme. This time it is helping the poor family and also women empowerment.
    It is true that not only Govt but also the society and well off people have to extend the help whatever they can do within their means to these needy people.
    Central Govt as well as state Govt have floated various schemes and measures for the development of girl child and through a strict governance we hope that these benefits are being passed to them continuously.
    Individual help is one thing but there are a good number of people who are against any help to anyone until one does some job and performs. So it boils down to job creation whatever small it is for all the people of the country. The poor should also take pride in doing something that provides him bread and butter.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #779457
    Helping the poor and especially to the girl child in poor families is an important item in our social ambition list and it is obvious that we all have to do efforts in that direction.
    These are the isolated cases as elaborated in the above case history but until efforts on state or national levels are done the result would not be perceptible.
    The burning question haunting all the good souls is how to uplift the poor people from their poor financial conditions? Govt will do its part and make process and procedures for that but until the society at large joins in that I do not see any progress in that in the coming times.
    India is a country with immense resources but we cannot manage it and some people are deprived of basic minimal facilities. It surely indicates that the present system has some flaws of very rudimentary types which are to be addressed and mitigated to favour the poor, needy, and downtrodden in our country.

    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

  • #779458
    The author discusses the relevant issues from time to time mostly about the upliftment of the weaker sections of the society. Helping the poor is a great mission but it should not be in such a way that it ultimately turns out to be a habit-forming attitude of society.
    Considering the human talents, especially the girl child, they are not less than their counterparts provided they receive some financial aid from the government to sustain their regular studies.
    Women are sincere and any financial assistance provided to them to promote their activities will change their careers for the better.

  • #779470
    The author made a good observation and supporting poor ladies and making them understand how the law can help them, will bring a lot of courage to the poor women. Then can take on their erring husbands and see that their family will not suffer because of him.
    There are many such stories we hear. I know a family in Hyderabad, where the husband was a drunkard and he was beating her wife for money. She used to give Rs.50/- every day to her husband. But that was not sufficient for him and he used to trouble her a lot. He died early. The lady was having 4 daughters. But she stood strongly. She joined as a peon in SBI through an outsourcing agency. In the mornings and evenings, she works in 4 or 5 houses. Now three of her daughters are married and the 4th daughter is in intermediate. They are very happy. She was working in our house also. But later on one of her sisters replaced her in our house.

    drrao
    always confident


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