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    Are you conscious of your personality get up?

    I have seen some (gents as well as ladies) people who are very conscious of their get up and appearance whenever they go for a meeting with other people official or private or a get together with their friends or a social meet or even a walk in the park. I call them personality concious people. On the other hand there are some who do not bother much for all those things and can go out even in an unironed shirt. They do not believe in showing their tip topness to others.
    What is your take on that? Do you not feel awkward going out just like that in an ordinary attire? Or you dress Well and present yourself in the best of the ways? Please share your views.
  • #779938
    Normally I never give much importance to attire. I wear normally T-shirts and If I go out also I will go out in the same shirt only. But my wife always scolds me for that. She insists that we should wear good dresses when we go out. When I was in my service I used to wear formal dress when I went to duty. When I attend some meetings or seminars I go in formal dress if necessary a coat also. But for family get-togethers and other family functions, I will not wear formal dress. I go with a good T-shirt and pants. If I go with my wife, she will decide what dress I should wear. If I go alone I will select the dress but show it to her before wearing the same. One of my uncles worked as a medical representative. He used to give a lot of importance to his dress and he used to look fresh always.
    Generally, ladies will give more importance to their attire even when they go out for small gatherings. When they attend functions they will wear separate dress for separate occasions. If they attend a marriage they change their dress at least once or twice before the marriage function is completed.

    drrao
    always confident

  • #779941
    I was very concious of my looks when I was not married but now I don't care. Now I can even roam on streets in kaccha baniyan.
    Thanks and regards.

  • #779945
    I was born and brought up in a village. About six decades ago, dress meant to be covered with clean clothes. There was no categorisation like today of Formal, informal casual, festival etc. For most occasions the dress was same(mainly because only a few were there which got repeated.)New dresses were purchased only on very few few times like school reopening, birthday and Deepavali/Onam. This was the case for majority of the people then. So as children w never felt any complex on dress.
    In UP and HS, there was school uniform. At home it was old and worn out dresses. For some special occasions we wore the less used ones or the new one purchased on a latest occasion.
    It was only after getting a job and moving to a metro that I started to understand different dresses and seen people who were conscious about appearances. As I had been in a job with public interactions and a certain responsibility, I took care to look decent and clean and aptly behaved to suit my job. Other than that I did not bother about dress or make up. I took care to appear civil, decent and suit my age. I have never gone to any fashion saloon, and stuck to the local saloon at every place, the local tailor, etc. When the tailoring charges became more than the cloth cost, I started buying normal readymade shirts.

    Even now I continue as a normal average person of my age in dress and appearance. I have not dyed my hair and am happy to look my age. The only make up I use is the normal talcum powder after bath, and homemade hair oil. Occasionally on travel I use the Dabur or other hair oil for the convenience of carrying and using. I give priority to personal cleanliness and hygiene, normal etiquette and courtesy only and not much on any made-up appearance.

  • #779951
    I am also not very particular about these things and only thing that I take care is wearing clean clothes. I don't mind even if they are not ironed.
    At the same time when I see a person well dressed I get impressed that he is able to get time to be ready like that. I sometimes get tempted to copy him but the charm soon fades and I come back to my usual attire of a common man having undyed hairs and simple clothes and a sandal in place of a shoe.

    Whenever there is a social function my family members alert me and tell me what I have to wear and arrange it if I do not have that or I am not able to manage that. During such time it takes time in getting ready and all care is taken from keeping a good handkerchief in pocket, spectacle case, watch, and other such accessories to having a polished shoe ready to wear and finally my clothes are dabbed with a spray of perfume. Sometimes I do not recognise myself in the mirror.

    Many people have a passion of looking attractive and well dressed and definitely it makes a good impression when you enter a gathering in such a fine and tasteful get up. But once we start talking then people start gathering around the wise and knowledgeable people and not around the well dressed up ones. So getting a good get up is a good thing but it is not a mandatory condition for one's recognition.

    Knowledge is power.

  • #779987
    Regarding the dress, I did not pay so much attention to the dress code. Fortunately or unfortunately, I was brought up in an environment where much emphasis was given to the development of personality. Right from my school to the end of my study at St. Xavier's Ranchi, I enjoyed the company of fine people including the fathers of St. Xavier's who encouraged me to strengthen my mental faculty more than the dress - code.
    Hence even after my graduation, I was not very particular regarding the dress codes. I ensure that the dress being put on my body should be clean enough to please me and the audience.
    On some occasions especially attending marriage - ceremonies and some official meetings, I followed the advice of my wife to please her.

  • #779990
    Many women have better ideas about dressing up and maintaining the get up and that is why they want their husbands to listen to them while preparing to dress better and go out to attend a function.
    Knowledge is power.

  • #780012
    Dressing up formally or informally depends upon the occasion. I think it is not whether it is formal or informal that matters but one should be well dressed and to the occasion.

    As is said 'dress makes the man'. So, even if you are wearing a dhoti and a normal shirt or t-shirt, it would look good if the same is neat and clean and you are wearing it properly.

    I am not generally particular about matching colors etc., but I do feel comfortable when I am wearing my dress that is to my size properly, that is clean and ironed, and also that matches my looks. I never wear anything that makes me feel awkward or uncomfortable because it will then reflect in everything I say and do.

    'Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all'.
    -Aristotle


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