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29 Jul 2024 19:47

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Good habits are to be instilled in children by parents

In Tamil there is a cine song,'Entha Kuzhanthaiyum nalla kuzhanthai thaan mannil pirakkaiyile, athu nallavanaavathum theeyavanaavathum annai valarkkaiyile....' which means all children are good by birth but grown as good or bad is in the hands of parents.
Similarly all parents should keep their children with good habits from the morning bed. I am seeing in some houses, the children are treated by the parents tyrannically in the terms of strictness. Lest if they train them with patience and smooth words, they will definitely obey with well manners.
I happened to cross a private school this morning, many parents drop their children in the cars and two wheelers but after the school time starts. They are waiting at the gate for end of the prayer meeting without any guilty feeling. They are all rich in their status also.
I am surprising what prevents them in making their children to keep punctuality in their tiny age?

#781353

30 Jul 2024 08:09

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Today's parents are quite different from the parents of earlier generations. Earlier parents gave much importance to the discipline in the house and not only the children but everyone followed that.
Today whether we blame the modern society or lack of determination in the parents that today discipline element is totally out of the families of many people.

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#781354

30 Jul 2024 11:09

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Discipline is an essential trait and our efforts must be to make our children understand the importance of this term in their lives. It is not essential to force them to follow the same rigidly. The parents must have a periodic session providing the kids a brief description of its true benefits if followed religiously.
The most unfortunate part of what I felt is that the parents don't have enough time to discuss this vital issue with a touch of love to their kids., A forceful implementation of discipline kills their traits of creativity and innovation essential to lead to success in their lives. The parents need to understand the importance of different positive traiits other than discipline.

#781357

30 Jul 2024 13:45

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The author's observation is correct. There is a school just by the side of our house in our colony. I also see many parents coming and standing near the gate of the school with their child and sending them after prayer into the school. I have seen a teacher standing near the gate and warning the students not to come late. As mentioned by the author if parents start their day a little early and make their children also get early, this problem may not be there. But parents go to bed very late due to their work pressure so they may not be able to start their day early. Many IT employees will have overseas clients and bosses and they have to interact with them as per their office timings. So they are forced to go to bed late. Like, some may have some practical issues which are beyond their control. But it is always advisable to have a disciplined life from the early stage of life itself so that by the time they grow up, they will have a decent disciplined life.

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Good habits are to be instilled in children by parents

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