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    Fear gives way to many health setbacks

    Fear from our childhood is living with us. After some level we grow we remove the fear from us but in some cases the fear sticks with us till death.
    Actually fear is common in all human beings and so that even in Holy Bible the word "do not afraid' is applied in 365 places.
    We should have some faith in us that some super power or God is in us to protect us from anything and through which we can overcome the fear in us.
    But when children feared for anything, the parents should give them support in kind words but I am seeing many parents are telling them in a scolding way for not having fear on anything. In one house, I saw a girl child feared to go inside the house alone to fetch water from water can. Her father kindly took her inside and told there is nothing to fear and give courage to her. This is the right way.
    Hear fear, I take up, not only the fear on dark etc., but when people got sick also they covered with fear that they got something which is not curable. So that they started to check their disease and the medicine prescribed by the doctor in computer whether they are correct. Some people check in the computer whether the doctor is ranked good etc., before consulting him.
    So, the fear of this type as well all fear in general comes from the lack of 'belief'.
    Recently in many places, parents, teachers and other elderly people are instructing the children especially female children about 'good touch and bad touch' which is good and needy one but the way of they teach them is nor correct. They made the children to have fear and their alert s so that they should not talk or sit even with father and other close relatives and in such cases they are sitting aloof in separate rooms which blackish their minds more and more.
  • #781769
    Fear will have a very strong effect on our minds. It will not allow our brains to think properly. Fear brings in more and more negative thoughts that will give our body a negative signal. Thus we will have a lot of impact on the body as well as the brain.
    My father who is 92 years old always has a fear of bad health. So any small health issue also he started seriously and that has led him to anxiety. He anticipates that he may have some health issues and starts worrying. When he hears news about the bad health condition of somebody, he starts thinking he is also having that problem and starts fearing that will make him mentally sick. This problem he was facing from his 55th year. He is on medication. He has no activity. So he sits and thinks about his health only and starts shivering. If any new person heats him, they feel that he is sick. The doctor and the family members only know about his mental health condition.
    One should not have fear. We should have confidence in facing the issues.

    drrao
    always confident

  • #781782
    The mind of a child is very tender and we have to treat them kindly and carefully. Many children have got fear of various things. It could be dark area or school or bullying friends or any other such reason.
    When they grow up that fear gradually goes down and they get rid of that. But till that time it is our duty to support them.

    Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.

  • #781784
    The fear factor in the children depends on the environment in the house. If we keep a bold and open environment and do not tell the children all sort of stories creating fear then they would not be fearing anything. We have to be careful in that.
    Knowledge is power.

  • #781786
    Let us remember our childhood days when we were brought up in an environment with a mixed environment. Our parents approached a two-pronged strategy to discipline us. Sometimes they were, too, affectionate whereas, on the other hand, they were serious if we showed some indifference to our studies.
    However, the best part of such a bringing-up was that we could realise the moods of our parents and how they could be kept satisfied.
    Now talking about the families of others, we have seen how the children were fearful of their parents because of the strict culture of their families. They were unable to concentrate on their studies because of the negative environment. It was not that they lacked the best sets of books and care of tutors regularly visiting them.
    However, the ultimate result of such youngsters were not very encouraging due to the elements of fear.


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