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    This year wedding anniversary went unnoticed

    May 10th is our wedding anniversary. We both tied up on 10th May 1985. She cooperated with me in all my responsibilities and stood by my side during all my difficult days, and shared her joy with me during all my pleasant activities. She is responsible for my success in my life. So far, we have completed 41 years and are travelling through the 42nd year.

    Our father passed away on 12th April this year. Not even one month completed, and we are all busy completing the rituals, and hence, 10th May passed by unnoticed. I am always thankful to my better half for her undaunted support for me all these 41 years. I pray God to give her strength and health.
  • #783781
    I distinctly remember your forum post from the previous year on the occasion of your 40th marriage anniversary.
    But I can't agree that your 41st anniversary has gone unnoticed. Both of you definitely remember it, although you haven't celebrated it due to the unfortunate demise of your aged father.
    Sincere best wishes to both of you.

    Kabhi un mad-bhari ankhon se piya tha ek jaam, aajtak hosh nehi, hosh nehi, hosh nehi—Jigar Moradabadi ("Once I drank a cup from those drunken eyes; till now I haven't regained my senses!")

  • #783782
    Thank you, Partha Sir. I appreciate your memory power, and yes, I posted a thread last year on the occasion of our 40th marriage anniversary. As mentioned by you, we have not celebrated this year.
    drrao
    always confident

  • #783783
    I used to visit some temples on our wedding anniversary 10th March, every year from our first one and till 2015 and my wife expired on 20th March 2015. Since then I recollecting the places we went. As my wife also interested in visiting temples, no compromise required for any one of us and totally we have visited nearly 217 temples and 138 places in India. Really, as told by the author, I am very much person got boon of such wife as no misunderstanding came between us during our 27 years of married life.

  • #783787
    A wife who understands the situation and acts according to the situation is really a boon. In our generation, many of us have such wives only. But the present generation is not like that. The husband has to adjust himself to the situation, but the wife will never do that. Whenever I return from an outside job to the house, my wife will offer me water to drink. But these days, the wife will be sitting alone, and the husband who returns after a tedious day's work has to fetch a glass of water from the fridge. This is very unfortunate.
    drrao
    always confident

  • #783789
    Just now saw this thread and came to know about completion of another milestone in your togetherness. God bless you many more years of togetherness and give chance to celebrate Gold, Diamond, Platinum jubilees of the same.

    However the important thing is to be of mutual attachment and affection and live with enthusiasm and interest in each other as if newly married.
    God bless you both.

  • #783790
    Ramachandran Pattabirama #783783

    How exactly you have the data of having "....have visited nearly 217 temples and 138 places in India. ". Do you maintain visit diary etc?
    I have visited many temples and still not able to remember many of them exactly, but recall having visited them when some reference and details is seen somewhere about that.

  • #783793
    Thank you, Venkiteswaran, for your best wishes and blessings. Luckily, so far, we both (my better half and I) have a good understanding and strong attachment. To keep up this, my wife gives a lot of support to me, and I am thankful to her for the same.
    I have also visited many pilgrimage places in India, but I never counted how many I have visited. As mentioned in the above thread, I will also remember the place when some discussion comes about it or when some reference is seen.

    drrao
    always confident


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