How to bring your audacious child back to his former lovely self?

You couldn’t get even the feel of it when did your lovely child, the innocent little thing turned up so cheeky and reckless. What to do under such situation to bring the child back to his innocent former self? That is what this article is going to detail you with.

The trouble of Mrs Sunil Sharma is mounting day by day. Her daughter used to touch of feet of others earlier by coaxing. Not only this, she begged to be excused before for the mistakes she was prone to commit but don't know what has happened to her since the recent times that what to talk of to touching feet now from coaxing and cajoling, even after being beaten also she doesn't touch feet nor she beg for excuses now for her mistakes. If you too sufferer the similar situation in respect of your child similar to what Mrs Sharma is facing, it might well be, your child has become audacious and proud.

Factors responsible for child's audacity

Clinical and child psychologists tell the reasons which cause this audacious behaviour on the part of the children. Now the system of single family is on the increase where the children rear up to grow only with parents. In such families, parents look upon by the achievements of their children by attaching it with their own status and prestige. The result is that the children's every demand get fulfilled by their parents considering good or bad demands in on standards. Slowly but surely, the children become used to it and some time later the children feel proud and audacious of themselves. Whatever they want gets fulfilled. The children cannot distinguish the difference between pride and proud because either do not give them enough quality times to their children due to their busy schedules or due to the lack of parenting skills in them.

Media expose lends credence such audacity

The children these days are continually so much being exposed to media that they wish to live life king size like the children they watch living in the TV shows. This desire not only rears up in the children's but their parent's minds also. This culminates into parents teaching all types skills and knowledge to their children because it enhances their values in the society. Children are asked to behave like adults in their little ages. Every things move well as long as the children behave in accordance with the parents but the moment they turn wayward, all hell let loose landing parents in hot soup.

Children learn from surroundings and from us

Children from somewhere or other learn from their nearby surroundings and from us. Radio, television and media play great role in this. Oftentimes we are not aware of what they learn from media and television. Somewhere from here, the audacity permeates into them and we are not at all aware of it. This tendency makes them suffer in their life and he would buy quarrels with most of men. He shall be left with no companion leading life in total isolation. Due to overconfidence, he won't indulge in much of labour.

What you can do?

  • First of all you shall have to know hat is it you want from your child? Whether you wish to make them your lovely child or else like other parents you too want to see him excelling in all fields? If your child has become cheeky and proud, you need to go to attend the classes on parenting. You can try to ferret out here the solutions to your child's problems by discussing things out with the child psychologists here.
  • You can go to the child's school to suggest the authorities there to run classes pertaining to life skills programme.
  • Talk to your child and try to bring about improvements in him. Remember, you are the beast teacher of your child.

Spend quality times with your children to keep them under the leash.

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Author: Reena Upadhya23 Sep 2019 Member Level: Gold   Points : 7

Make your child understand that there are certain rules in family and no one is allowed to break the rules. Certain behaviours cannot be accepted in the family. Thus, their behaviour will not be tolerated in any way. Do not let the days pass by. Address the wrong behaviour of the child then and there itself. Any type of misbehaviour should be addressed immediately.

Usually, parents react. The need of the hour is to stop reacting and instead start acting. They should know what they are dealing with and how to deal with the issues to sort out the problem. There is no benefit in losing temper. Parents have to deal with their kids patiently and maintain calm while trying to sort out the issue.

If the aim is to bring the audacious child back to his former behaviour, they have to behave friendly with him. Have frequent discussions. Don't turn the discussions into arguments and don't raise voices. Try to get into the shoes and think from a child's perspectives. Only then parents can understand what kids are going through or dealing with. Once the cause is understood, patiently help them understand the difference between right and wrong.

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