Introduction Self-control is to have control over our actions. When some things happen, we will get some impulses immediately. In that impulsive moment, we take some actions which may cause a lot of damage afterwards. When We see tasty hot junk food, we feel like eating it immediately. Some people immediately eat the same. Such people may feel happy immediately but the effect of the same on their health will be known only afterwards. Instead of eating immediately if we question ourselves how good it is for our health, we may not go for it. It is painful immediately but it will be beneficial in the long run. This overriding power of our impulses is nothing but Self- Control. Self-control can prevent us from engaging in motivated behaviours. We will get motivated by the taste of the food. But self-control can prevent us from such motivational behaviour also. There are many instances where people spoiled their lives due to a lack of self-control.
Factors required to attain self-control:
Why should we achieve self-control? When we achieve this, we will have many benefits.
How to achieve self-control? One should follow the following points to improve their self-control.
By following the above points, we may be able to achieve our self-control.
Conclusion Self-control gives the required confidence to achieve the goal without getting distracted from the goal. We will have a better life with good relations with the people around us and we can have less stress and we will have peace of mind. Sometimes our self-control will take us away from possible disasters
Self-control is directly related to our emotions because when we talk about controlling ourselves it is mainly about controlling our emotions or mind. As far as controlling the feelings of others or sometimes their mind will also seem easy for you, but this control towards yourself is less. A person loves himself a lot, wants to give priority to his own comfort, and for this comfort he does not want to control his feelings by prioritizing them.
Whereas the truth is that the day a person learns to control himself, he can create the best situation for himself. Many ways help in self-control but the most important thing is to focus on yourself and identify yourself as to what is inside you that is not letting you allowed to control your emotions. May it be your ego, or a false pride whatever it is once you recognize it and remove it from yourself, your control over yourself will start increasing. Self-control is an important factor for a happy and healthy life for every human.
In Tamil there is a great saying that "Poruthar Bhoomi azhwar" that means those who have patience and self control over their own emotions they are going to walk further steps of success because their reactions to anyone is nil and that itself a great trait in offing. When a person tries to control himself, his wants are controlled, his emotions are controlled, his ego kept away, his jealous feeling on others controlled, his evil plans on other kept aside and all these good traits starts developing one after other and the person goes to the position of trans meditation as does not want anything now but the mental peace and peaceful living. Those who have self control does not want things that are not wanted so the expenses are nothing and nil. And even interaction with others also goes slow and thus there is no gossiping allegations,
Self-control is a quality of a person which helps him to be calm in each and every situation. It enhances self-confidence to control your emotions. Because after losing self-control one cannot do the right thing or cannot make the right decision. Sometimes when a person lacks self-confidence due to overwhelming emotions he/she shows a loss of self-control. He/she can start shouting or weeping in that situation. Which is a sign of his/her weakness. But to stay focused and achieve your goals it is important to have self-discipline and self-control. One can develop self-control by strengthening willpower, making plans, measuring progress, and rewarding himself.
Self-control can be correlated with discipline. To some extent, a self-controlled person is seen as living a disciplined life. It is one of the important virtues for getting success in life. Nowadays, people having lack this quality. As a result, they are unable to live a happy life even though they are wealthy people. Generally, people think that we should enjoy more and more in life because life is for once. So, they live an undisciplined life and never keep self-control over the body. They eat and enjoy more in life. As a result, their health starts deteriorating and victims of different diseases. In a real sense, only self-controlled people can enjoy their life till the end.
This is a wide subject and needs to be discussed and debated. By self-control, we mean the balanced approach to any problem. By controlling ourselves we are proving to others that we cannot be tempted to do wrong and that we act only after thinking. Self-controlled persons will have confidence in themselves because they think before they act and the chances of going wrong are very few.